Feel empowered, embody more play, deepen in intimacy, and magnetize what you want!
Hi, I'm Nicola!
I help you have more playful intimacy and get what you want with ease and grace.
I believe the key to being empowered, having deep intimacy, and getting what you want in life, is an inside job. It comes when you cultivate Inner Union, a balance of your healthy masculine and feminine energies.
On the masculine side, you are secure in yourself, who you are, what you deserve, what you’re willing to accept (and what you're not), and you’re not afraid to voice your needs and express yourself.
On the feminine side, you’re in flow, you’re open, you listen. You’re compassionate, vulnerable, intuitive, and you’re sensitive to your own needs, and the needs of your partner.
When you’re balanced and grounded within yourself, you feel EMPOWERED, you are AUTHENTIC…. you have space to bring PLAYFULNESS into you’re way of being…
And when you do, relating becomes FUN, baby!
You start to playfully seduce your partner into showing up differently, being open to new perspectives, and giving you what you want!
Life’s hardships become exciting puzzles to solve. Your partner becomes a morse code to crack. You feel enlivened by the challenges, instead of burdened by them.
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Inner Union
For the woman who is the fierce devotee to love, and life.
I see you, babe.
You deserve the best. A partner that worships and adores you. Respects and admires who you are in the world, and how you show up. Who values your opinion, and chooses you every day because they can.
Yet I know you also have big goals and dreams for yourself. You’re more than just a "partner," you’re here to serve in your own unique and impactful way. You’re motivated and inspired, and won’t stop until you feel fully satiated with life.
And the best part is, you can have your cake and eat it too.
You see, when you have Inner Union, you are your own best lover. Sure, you have big dreams for what kind of intimacy is possible to share, but it doesn’t define you. You love yourself more than anyone could ever love you, and you feel deeply fulfilled by who you are, and how you serve the world. You are a force to be reckoned with, and only those truly worthy of your time, love, and energy make their way into your field. You get what you want in playful, enticing ways, you don’t dim your light from anything outside of you.
Relationship challenges, GAME ON. Fiesty partner, I’ll eat you for breakfast with a chalice of champagne. When you feel THAT secure and whole in who you are, nothing breaks you. You Dance your way through life, as you magnetize the world around you.
I began working with Nicola because I felt completely shut down in my body.
Over our 10 sessions together, we moved through and released the layers that were keeping me stuck. I tapped into my divine rage, and had cathartic emotional releases.
After our sessions, I felt sensually embodied, was more assertive in my relationship, and felt tapped into my intuition again.
Nicola expertly guided me every step, always accepting where I was at with absolute compassion while also encouraging me to grow and transform. I feel forever changed by our time together.
-Rose, Astrologer
Working with Nicola was inspirational, and incredibly valuable, and made a deep impact on the polarity and depth of my relationship with my partner, now husband.
In our sessions with her, we got to experience next-level guidance from her coaching that met both of our personalities perfectly and immediately increased our emotional intimacy and shared sexual ecstasy.
It was such a relief to be held in her powerful and skilled container as I got to share hidden fears, desires, and requests in a way that was structured and safe. I felt like I could finally fully embrace parts of my sexuality and femininity that I had unintentionally kept under wraps in our relationship.
I am currently experiencing how Nicola’s guidance continues to have an impact daily. I directly relate her coaching to my deeper confidence with sharing myself openly with my husband, asking for what I want and need in the bedroom, and feeling like the sexy, godyssey woman that I am.
-Cynthia, Somatic Healing Practioner
I have struggled with effective communication in many romantic relationships and coming out of my sessions with Nicola I was able to have a number of challenging conversations with partners with more ease.
I have even been able to practice more honest communication with acquaintances because with Nicola I learned that if I can’t say how I really feel while being considerate of the feelings of someone I’ve just recently met, then I don’t know how we are supposed to do it with ourselves, family members, long term partners, etc.
When confiding in her about past issues or insecurities, Nicola mirrored back to me exactly what I need to hear to change old stories and ways of thinking and being. But the best part is - she prompted me to get there through very insightful questioning, something I have now been able to implement within my own self-talk and moments of reflection.
Nicola is one of the only people I have met who truly put herself in others' shoes and listens with her whole being.
I would recommend Nicola to anyone looking for help with their intimate life, relationships, or how to practice radical self-love!
-Aly, Creative Director