sacred Union

Private 3-Month Immersion for Couples

Deepen in physical and emotional intimacy.

Feel more in tune with each other.

Learn powerful techniques for communication and conflict.

Learn tools for connection, play, and exploration.

Reignite the passion and polarity.

Create a safe container that allows both parties to thrive as individuals and as a couple.

Come into somatic sensitivity with one another and learn how to calm each other's nervous system in times of stress and unease.

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When you are out of balance as a couple...

You feel resentment towards one another.

You have many unspoken things that have caused frustration or you bicker incessantly.

You find it difficult to invite new ways of communicating and initiating intimacy in the relationship.

You feel an uneven distribution of power.

You feel more like roommates (or parent/child) than lovers, unable to cultivate passion, polarity, and excitement.

You don't feel the depth of intimacy you crave.

You feel bored with the monotony and desire more aliveness or you feel drained by the highs and lows and the relationship feels "fragile" and "unsafe."

5 Pillars of Sacred Union

Clarity and Safety

We will work to gain more clarity around the needs and desires of each member of the coupledom, and we will create a safe container within the coupledom to promote greater trust and fulfillment.

Communication

Implementing tools and practices to improve communication and conflict management.

Connection

Processes that will bring you into deeper somatic sensitivity with each other to build intimacy and connection.

Healing

Working with triggers, past experiences, and memories that impact the ways you each show up and relate. More awareness of each other's past and triggers will give you deeper compassion for each other, and more insight as to how to navigate future triggering scenarios.

Physical Intimacy and Play

Practices to explore new terrain as a coupledom.

investment in the coupledom

$3,888 PIF

(or 3 monthly payments of $1,425)

✓12 Weekly Collaborative Calls (Processes, Practices, Coaching)

✓Private Telegram Access to Nicola to connect, share wins and celebrations, collaborate, seek support!

✓Access to all pre-recorded masterclasses, mini-trainings, and any new courses and offerings launched during the immersion.

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praise from the couples

It was a fantastic experience to amplify our 'coupledom' by working with Nicola.

She is a natural at helping couples navigate challenging conversations and providing insightful feedback on unconscious responses and behaviors.

As a couple that works and lives together, it was a special opportunity to set some intentional time together to strengthen our connection with the help of Nicola's guidance and romantic exercises.

After the experience, we have a better understanding of what makes each other tick, what we are seeking from this connection, and more tools to continue to deepen our bond.

-Catherine and Colin

Working with Nicola saved our relationship. Before we started with her we had a really difficult time talking about physical intimacy, which was a problem because that was the most pressing issue in our relationship.

Through her couples coaching, we were able to figure out tools to have those really hard and vulnerable conversations without it becoming a fight.

Our work with her made every aspect of our communication better because we learned what each of us needed and how we could best support each other.

We also improved our physical intimacy greatly, we were able to try new fantasies and tools we would never have tried otherwise. Nicola was such a wonderful coach and helped us both feel at ease, even though one of us had never done any of this kind of work before and wasn't spiritual at all.

She gave us tools that we truly use every day and opened up space for discussions and practices for us to connect on deeper levels than we thought possible. She made each session fun and positive, even when the stuff we were navigating through was uncomfortable. We would recommend her work to any couple, even those who are not spiritual or who are new to counseling or coaching.

-Evelyn and Jackson

Working with Nicola was inspirational, and incredibly valuable, and made a deep impact on the polarity and depth of my relationship with my partner, now husband.

In our sessions with her, we got to experience next-level guidance from her coaching that met both of our personalities perfectly and immediately increased our emotional intimacy and shared physical ecstasy.

It was such a relief to be held in her powerful and skilled container as I got to share hidden fears, desires, and requests in a way that was structured and safe. I felt like I could finally fully embrace parts of my sensuality and femininity that I had unintentionally kept under wraps in our relationship.

I am currently experiencing how Nicola’s guidance continues to have an impact daily. I directly relate her coaching to my deeper confidence with sharing myself openly with my husband, asking for what I want and need in the bedroom, and feeling like the godyssey woman that I am.

-Cynthia, Somatic Healing Practioner

FAQs

Does it matter how long we have been in a relationship?
No. What matters most is your commitment to showing up for the sessions and doing the work. This is for any couple that wants to deepen their intimacy and cultivate greater passion, polarity, and aliveness in their relationship.

How does it work?
You will leverage powerful tantric, embodiment, and subconscious reprogramming tools both individually and during joint processes, that will help rewire your bodies and minds to impact change. Being able to witness each other, do practices together, and share with each other, in a guided safe, and neutral space is incredibly healing and transformative for couples dynamics.

Is this going to be fun or a lot of work?
People often associate personal development as an exhausting task. And it certainly can be. In this process, I’ll take you on a wild and playful journey where we will have a lot of deep growth, while also having some fun and sexiness at the same time. A full range of emotions may be present, as they are all part of being fully alive and open to life ;).

I don’t think we have time, what is the commitment?
This is an investment in your fulfillment and growth as a couple. We will meet virtually weekly for 75-minute sessions, and you will have personalized home play assignments to practice what you’ve learned and try out new tools, for the time between sessions.

We already have a good relationship, so how can you help there?
We work to elevate your partnership in the areas that could use strengthening, so you can deepen your bonds and build something truly extraordinary.

Why should we choose to work with you?
I've worked with countless couples with these tools who've seen a deepening of intimacy and passion in their relationship. Resonance is something you feel on an energetic level, it doesn't come from the mind. And given you're reading this page, something tells me there might be resonance.

So, are you willing to dive in with me?